Well we have always had a... system. [That's pretty much as far as she's going to go with the description.] It works well for both of us.

I have no doubt it would not be impossible for her, but we have been very happy with how things are. [She looks down at her rug and crosses her arms.] Perhaps because I never felt alone in our home. I did not need someone to pay attention to me because I felt as though I was the center of her life, and she was the center of mine.

[Perhaps it wasn't the lovemaking. Perhaps it was the feeling of being someone's center again.]